‘Sex’ vs LoveMaking
Why Couples Don’t Have Sex More Often
In your committed relationship over time, now a days how often do you have sex together? And then ask yourself, why don’t you have sex more often? What is it about the experience you share together that could cause either of you to pull back? Or to now feel unfulfilled? Was it like this when you first met and fell in love?
There is an innocent approach to lovemaking that has evolved from the work of the late Barry Long in Australia. It provides a simple, natural process of LoveMaking that is unlike any system or approach to intimacy you have encountered, Western or Eastern. And yet, many will recognize this is what has been missing that would make your experience most fulfilling for both of you.
This is because this easily learned and natural process feels like the most pure, innocent, and natural expression of lovemaking together as a couple. The results of this shared experience are far-reaching as each of you will innocently discover how to naturally open up to more vulnerable states of awareness, sensation, appreciation and lovingness.
These experiences are also what generate in your relationship a deeper sense of heartfelt connectedness, meaning, and fulfillment in your lives together. And even more than you imagine.
All of this is because The LoveMaking Process innocently generates a deeper heartfelt and physical experience and connection together. It naturally opens you both to more vulnerable states of shared awareness, sensation, and enlivenment in LoveMaking. Sharing this richer, more intimate experience together strengthens your bond of love and caring as it nourishes both your relationship and their souls.
However, these days many if not most couples may find that over time they have sex less often. So learning this simple process can be one of the most important things they can learn in deepening their connection together. For sharing in this richer, more intimate experience will strengthens their bond of Love and Caring in their relationship.
This is also because this natural LoveMaking process introduces an important new level of emotional safety together, free of all emotional pressures, insecurities, and unconscious expectations or disappointments. This is huge for it enables partners to fully relax into the experience that enables them to connect to their depths in shared LoveMaking together.
Interestingly, this also provides the framework for healing insecurities from the past. For Women, the experience provides the emotional safety that enables her to let go intimately. Which is also what transforms any previous lack of desire or unresponsiveness.
For Men, this provides the necessary framework that will enable them to fully Relax during the whole process of LoveMaking and sustain their erection. It also relaxes men’s impulse towards premature ejaculation. And too, for those who experience overwhelming sexual desires and needs, or are drawn to fantasy substitutes for intimacy with porn, affairs, prostitutes — they will discover that this innocent deeper intimacy and fulfillment that has been missing inside changes everything.
More fundamentally, having this fulfilling experience together of making love in this manner carries over and nourishes each of you in your day to day lives. Whereas not sharing in this natural intimate experience together can tend to feed whatever emotional distance is there.
Couples can learn ‘The LoveMaking Process’ in one session together. Or by reading Chris Wright’s book: Natural LoveMaking: Transforming “Sex” Into Innocent & Wondrous LoveMaking Together (Available on Amazon in Paperback or Kindle).