Who Will Benefit From This Approach
Couples in the Beginning of their Relationship will want to make sure that they establish the foundation for a harmonious and fulfilling relationship. Those couples who have been through this process will tell you that they wish they had gained these awarenesses and skills before they got married. For it is these understandings and frameworks that enabled them to grow together, and not grow apart (as half of all marriages eventually do).
Premarital Counseling: Couples planning to marry are forming a lifetime commitment together. Now it becomes even more important that they have a solid foundation for their future life together. And especially for the children they may plan to have as a family.
Fortunately this is a positive approach in gaining these important awarenesses and skills. It will empower each of you. This is what can make all the difference in sustaining your connection and in meeting your dreams.
Even Happily Married Couples will benefit from these new awarenesses. These awarenesses will result in further depth of understanding and appreciation together. You will be surprised with how much you will learn that will empower each of you. Also developing your skills to more fully respond to and honor each other’s core emotional needs will only deepen your love.
Couples who are Looking to Grow within themselves and in their relationship will find these awarenesses and tools just the ticket. With these new conscious relationship tools, the relationship now becomes a vehicle for their personal and spiritual growth. Using these natural frameworks, they discover that they feel safer opening up more intimately together. In the process, they find themselves learning, growing, healing, sharing, and deepening their inner experience together.
Couples who are just Starting to Feel Frustrated, Unhappy, or a little Distant, now is the time to catch this early and turn it around. Why let it continue to go underground? In many cases, couples might think that it will somehow get better with time. Yet for many, it doesn’t. And if so, it can tend to wear them down as the months and years go by.
Fortunately, you can gain these awarenesses and the skills that can enable you to learn to resolve your issues together.
“Chris was very helpful in guiding us to a happier marriage. My spouse and I had anger issues that had us on edge much of the time. Chris gave us insights that I found eye-opening. We are now able to recognize the underlying reasons for our intense reactions to each other, i.e., why we were causing frustration and hurt, when in our minds, we thought we were just being reasonable. We’re learning how to have a disagreement without emotional upset. Without Chris, we never would have been able to understand why we triggered each other. We’re much more relaxed and enjoying each other’s company again and for that, I am grateful to Chris.” – R. L.
Couples who Feel Like They Are On Their Last Legs, or who have been together for a while and it is becoming difficult — they may begin wondering should they throw in the towel? Is it too late to turn it around? It may seem like there is too much baggage.
At this stage, also some partners may secretly wonder if they could find someone out there who will meet their needs. And yet what are those chances of success? For of course, the next person is going to have their own set of sensitivities, insecurities, and inner pressures. This is the human condition.
So the question is, How much inner self-awareness do you, your partner, and the people you in your life really have? And How skillful are you and they when natural differences and tensions arise that need to be resolved together safely and intimately? But then where would you and others have gained these inner awareness and skills?
Couples in these situations who gain these awarenesses report that this new approach can make all the difference. And that surprisingly it does not have to take long. So you might consider trying one session to see if this can make a difference.
“When my husband and I started seeing Chris Wright, we had reached an all time low in our marriage and the only thing we knew with any certainty is that we loved each other and wanted to salvage what was left of our relationship. Almost immediately after we started weekly sessions with him we began to have a better understanding of one another’s needs and how to communicate more effectively. Our relationship is better than it has ever been and we have Chris to thank for that. He’s very intuitive and makes you feel so at ease that you can tell him anything.” – Atena M.
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“I’ve seen several therapists over the years and Chris is by far the best ever! I wish I had met him two decades earlier because I have learned so much about myself that not only enriched my marriage but has helped me in all facets of my life. Chris is truly gifted! So if you prefer the bitch-about-your-partner style therapist, then Chris is not for you. However if you’re ready to truly understand what makes you and your partner thrive so you can nurture each other, then get ready to have Chris rock your world!” – Ann L.